Updated: Nov 13, 2019
"Forgive yourself for not having the foresight to know now what seems so obvious in hindsight." - Judy Belmont
Hindsight is a crazy thing, just like when you look back at a conversation or argument and think of the right 'come back' or 'thing to say'. Let me tell you something, you didn't say it then for a reason. It was a lesson or a test YOU had to go through so that 'present-day you' could understand, learn and grow from it.
Forgive yourself. Take the pressure off. You do not always have to know what to do.